Music: the Great Divide
February 5, 2010 at 12:52 pm | In Church Life | Leave a CommentTags: Church Life, music
Beth mentioned to me that the blog is becoming more her’s and Maddie’s and so a nice ramble or thought might be nice to balance out . . . so here I go.
I’ve been thinking a lot about church music. Our current music minister has felt called to a church in Oklahoma and is leaving at the end of the month. Therefore, our church will begin the process of seeking to replace this position. But what has amazed me is how 1) different people’s ‘wants’ are in music and 2) how music can be such a source of conflict. One of the reason’s I love our church is that we are diverse. On any Sunday, you can find about 4 different generations of people walking (or crawling) around the sanctuary. We are a family. Yet we have some VERY different tastes when it comes to the ‘secondary’ issues in church. For the most part, we all manage to get along because it can generally be minor differences.
Yet, music is different. Think about it. Music is front and center on Sunday mornings, and we all like something different. Some members of our church could put on the Gaither Vocal Band (pic to the right for those of you who don’t know who they are) and hit “repeat” and be in tears. I might be in tears . . . but for a different reason. Me? I’ve got Sovereign Grace-type music on my iPod. Others may like to jam out to some Michael W. Smith or Lecrae. So how is a church filled with diversity supposed to unite on an issue that has the potential to be so divisive?
Easy answer . . . hard application . . . Humility. A few years ago, Dr. Russ Moore was answering a question of similar nature to a prospective student at SBTS. He said that we have to first look and see if this is an issue of taste or truth? IF the issue is truth, then there is a definite need to make a change. Yet if the issue is one of taste, then we need to put aside all of our desires and wants. He said that the day a church is truly humble is when the 80 year old legacy member of the church tells the pastor to play more “hip” songs to reach the 20 year olds AND when the 20 year old tells the pastor to play more southern gospel to reach the 80 year olds. It’s a two way street.
I have been trying to apply this over the past few years to my own life. I may not care for a certain song or version of a song, but if there is no issue of truth, then unity it is! However, I am now beginning to think about this from a missiological perspective. Is the corporate service worship time for the church members or for reaching out? Or both? If primarily for those in the church, then the humility is putting off issues of taste for the unity of the church. Yet, if we are trying to reach our communities, then doesn’t the music need to be something that would draw or keep visitors around? IF so, then taste is a major issue calling for even more humility of those in the church to put off their desires and wants for the greater good of the kingdom.
I’m still trying to put all this together and so is our church. So feel free to comment to help a brother out . . .
PS. the best book I’ve read on this topic is Worship Matters by Bob Kaughlin (on sale now).
More Savings!
January 28, 2010 at 11:47 am | In Couponing | 3 CommentsTags: Coupons, Kroger
Ok y’all…I guess this blog is going to be a Maddie update plus random shopping trips and deals of mine and some ramblings of Will J…haha…we’re getting our money’s worth! I went to Kroger last night and picked up some great deals! All 16 items in the picture cost me $8.58! That’s like $.53 per item! Here’s how I did it:
First of all, I am a BIG NERD and have switched to the binder system, instead of the old trusty accordion style coupon holder…but it’s served me well, after MUCH preparation – ask Will…haha. Also, the “*” denotes items in the Mega Event Sale which entails buying 10 items and receiving $5 off your purchase instantly!
Here was my list (compiled from 4 out of my 5 fav blogs):
-*2 Frank’s RedHot, 12 oz — $1.69 ea -(2) $0.50/1 Frank’s Redhot Sauce, SS 12/13 and 01/24 insert -*1 Quaker Quakes Rice Snacks 3-3.5 oz at 1.29 ea -.75/1 Quaker Rice Snacks RP 1/10 -*1 Rotel 1.00 -.30/1 Rotel Tomatoes SS 1/24 -*2 Nature Valley Nut Clusters $2.69 ea (2)-.50/1 Nut Clusters SS 1/03 -$1 off Nut Clusters Shortcuts eCoupon -$1 off Nut Clusters Cellfire eCoupon -*1 I Can’t Believe it’s Not Butter Tubs or Sticks $1.56 ea -$1 off I Can’t Believe Sticks RP 11/15 OR -.50/1 off any I Can’t Believe RP 11/15 -*2 Chex Mix (I got Traditional and Chocolate Turtle!) $1.69 ea -$.50/2 off Any flavor Chex Mix -$.50 off Chex Mix any flavor Shortcuts eCoupon -$.50 off Chocolate Turtle Chex Mix Cellfire eCoupon -*1 French's Honey Mustard $1.69 -$.50 off any French's Mustard -*2 Kraft Cheese, Mozzarella and Monterey Jack $1.99 ea -$1 off of 2 Kraft cheese -$5 off instantly!!! Mega Event Total before tax: $4.31 Non Mega Event items, but needed: -2 Kroger Refrigerated Orange Juice, 64 oz — $1 each -Kroger Milk $2.19 -Kroger Large eggs $1.19 Non Mega Event Total before tax: $5.38
I actually was charged too much for the Redhot sauce and they gave one bottle to me for free, that’s how I got everything for $8.38! Subscribe to that Sunday paper for the coupons and check the blogs for the list of coupons that will be in the paper…it’s really helpful b/c if a Sunday paper has great coupons, it might be worth it to go grab another one at the store!
10 months and still gigglin’ away….
January 22, 2010 at 4:34 pm | In Uncategorized | Leave a CommentOriginally uploaded by willandbeth
Maddie is crackin’ me up with her giggles. She loves it when Will and I play dance, play airplane with her food, or when we say, “I’m gonna get you!” all the while crawling on the floor after her. She’s doing great…got her weight up to 17+ lbs…still kind of leery about putting table food into her mouth, but we’re working on it! All of our furniture has been scaled and I won’t be surprised if she starts walking before her 1st bday (March 10!). Her front 2 teeth feel like they’re coming in, but she’s still toothless…she has been helping me with my couponing by trying to hold them when we’re in the checkout line and aiding in the cutting out process (don’t worry, I have it under control…I think!)….My latest big deal:
Walgreens:
This week had a $2 off coupon for their Aquafresh toothpaste (limit 3)
and at my Walgreens they were $2.99 for the kind we like, so, I used my coupon and my leftover $3 Register Rewards from this past Sunday – and I had to buy a filler item so, I bought a $.39 bag of M&M’s…my grand total $.56 for all 4 items!!
Target:
I used 2 $1 off any Reach floss and got both flosses (priced at $.97 each) Free!!
I hear your never supposed to have to pay for toothpaste, floss or deo….I haven’t in a while! Check those circulars and your coupons! And let me know your finds!
Freebies, coupons, and low prices, oh my!
January 17, 2010 at 10:47 pm | In Couponing | Leave a CommentOk, so the past 3-4 months, I (Beth) have been getting the hang of this couponing business. I have about 5 blogs I take a gander at pretty consistently each day to let me know of this week’s best prices on the items we need and the items we don’t necessarily need, but are almost free-free that we might be brave enough to try. Example, last week, Meijer had Betty Crocker’s Warm Delights on sale 10 for $10, and I had 3 $.50 off coupons for this that doubled to $1.00 off for the 3 varieties we tried!
Now, normally, I would have not purchased this item, but because it was free (and delish!) I might be more apt to try it again. I have really been impressed with the ladies’ blogs I read and I intend to share them with you. It’s been a HUGE blessing to get into this new “hobby” because since I’ve gone to part time at the school, our budget has totally felt the implications. So, I’m trying to be a lot more frugal and definitely more attentive to what we need and what’s on sale. Here are the ladies I feel like are my BFF’s b/c I read their blogs multiple times a day & what store I usually look for on their sites specifically:
Southern Savers (Southeast Region): CVS, Walgreens, and Kroger + Freebie
Stretching a Buck (Central Ohio Region): Target, CVS and Walgreens + Freebies
Faithful Provisions (Middle TN Area): Kroger and any kind of freebies you would want!
Passion for Savings: Walmart and freebies
BargainBriana: Meijer and freebies
Here is a pic of my latest venture and I’ll break it down under the pic how I did it (so maybe you can do it too!)
From left to right:
Walgreens:
2 Neosporin Lip Care
1 Walgreens Chapstick
Aquafresh Toothpaste
2 Cans of Wet Ones
1 8×10 cute photo collage of Maddie boo
Total Spent: $3.77
Total Saved: $16.55 + I received $3 in Register Rewards also!
Walmart:
3 packs of Kotex liners (sorry guys)
2 Beech Nut Let’s Grow! Chicken & Stars
Total Spent: $ .18
Total Saved: $5.00 (all I had to do was pay tax!)
How fun! It’s kind of like I got 12 items for $.33 a piece! I found all of the deal matchups from these blogs mentioned above. I’m so thankful for these ladies’ hard work. You can get cool deals like this too…I’ll keep you updated on what other deals I find. Let me know what you find too!
Maddie’s first BIG snow!
January 7, 2010 at 1:23 pm | In Baby, Home Life | 2 CommentsI (Beth) will write and post more pics later, but wanted to
give you a couple of cute pics
from this morning’s first big snow in Louisville. Maddie wasn’t too sure of it after she plopped her bare hands (I had mittens on her, but she took them off) right into the 2″ of snow we had at the time. We a “Randy” from A Christmas Story moment after I got all her gear on. ha! I gotta run, but enjoy these two beauts!
Happy New Yeay 2010!
December 31, 2009 at 7:21 pm | In Family | 1 CommentTags: Anniversary, New Year
. . . and no, that’s not a misprint (see below). Beth and I celebrated our 4th anniversary last night. It’s actually today but this year it was easier to go out last night. We got to “return to Jamaica” with a dinner at a local Jamaican restaurant while answering Beth’s 9 questions for Will J. Thanks to Auntie Marisa for watching Maddie for a few hours.
While 2009 has been a great year for the Jackson’s, we are looking forward again to another great year. Maddie is learning all about New Year’s Eve . . . except that she does not like the noisemakers. So have a Happy New Yeay everyone!
**while we were in Nepal in 2005, Beth saw a some sheets in one of the villages that said “Happy New Yeay.” She’s got the pictures to prove it.
Maddie’s 1st Christmas
December 28, 2009 at 9:59 pm | In Home Life | Leave a CommentTags: Christmas, Maddie
. . . 4 days w/ family, 3 christmas parties, 2 exhausted parents, and a trunk with no room to spare.
We had a great time with almost every family member this past weekend. Maddie now has clothes and toys to last her at least through the summer if not longer! We are very thankful for our families and how they take care of us when we are home.
We’ve got most all of our pics posted over at Flickr. Check out the Christmas album here!
9 Months Old Today!!
December 10, 2009 at 1:11 pm | In Uncategorized | Leave a CommentEnjoy some Maddie fun as she turns 9 months
What are we thankful for?
December 8, 2009 at 7:03 pm | In Uncategorized | Leave a CommentMan…where to start on that question…there are so many things. I (Beth) love this time of year b/c I’m challenged and encouraged at the same time. By what you ask? I’m challenged by my inability to be totally and completely obedient to the Lord…but I’m encouraged by the Word b/c it tells me that I can be forgiven through Jesus’ sacrifice for me. Thank you Jesus!
Well, we’ve had a busy kick off to the Christmas season – we went to TN for
Thanksgiving and spent some great time w/ both fams. It’s always exciting time to see the spiral trees, string lights and inflatables in the yards. We can’t wait to share all this with Maddie this year and to see her tear into her presents for the first time. Check out some new pictures and videos from her newest trends, clapping, babbling, and crawling on our Flikr page!
We’re thankful for all of you and love you!
Love,
Will, Beth and Maddie
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